For Bonobology: Are mothers who go on business trips leaving children with the husband selfish?

Wrote this for Bonobology.com

As it so happens, in my marriage, I am the one who travels. As far as arrangements go, this is quite the reverse of the ‘dad travels – mom stays back in town.’ When it is book launch time, I can actually go through a couple of months of living out of my suitcase.

The spouse on the other hand, as a stock market trader, is in a profession where he is at his desk all day and home after the market shuts. Between 8.30 to 3.30 he is completely unavailable. Post that he is completely available. He can be counted upon to be at home when I’m not.

Last year, the offspring’s midterm exams came about at the same time as my third book, All Aboard was released. As is mandatory during book launch time, I was shuttling between events and cities. Well-meaning mommy friends gasped in shock. “Can’t you reschedule your travel?” they asked. “After all, it is the midterm exam.”

“But his father is right there,” I replied. The censorious gaze was unblinking. Bad mom. Bad mom. Bad mom. It had been printed out in bold and slapped onto my forehead.

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One thought on “For Bonobology: Are mothers who go on business trips leaving children with the husband selfish?

  1. Love the piece Kiran. This whole permission thing is so stupidly enforced by people around. Don’t we say marriage is about two souls, equal in their own ways? Why this social sanction. We need more such open-minded couples who support each other:) Kudos to you Kiran and the husband.

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